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Love Life Advice

When clients ask me for love life advice, they often wonder if it's possible to change a relationship if your partner won't discuss problems, seek help or take heed of suggestions. 

The answer? Don't lose heart. It only takes one person to change the dynamic of a relationship, and if YOU change YOUR actions in the relationship, things will change for the better. 

The first order of business is to set an intention to take small but significant steps yourself. Here is my best love life advice:

  1. Identify things that work or have worked in your relationship, and do more of that. For example, if you feel happier in your relationship when you prioritise your self-care, make sure you schedule enough me-time to rejuvenate your energy levels.
  2. Don't assume that you know what your partner needs. Ask. You may be surprised to find out their needs are the exact opposite of what you've been offering. Do your best to fulfil your partner's needs once you know what they are.
  3. Focus less on who's right or wrong, and focus more on trying to be less reactive. It doesn't help to blame each other for what is wrong in the relationship. What matters is how willing you are to take responsibility for your part in the problem and make things right.
  4. Remember that action is more important than talk. If constant discussion of the issue hasn't helped, try talking about it less. Attend to what you can DO differently to make your partner know how much you really care.
  5. If at first you don't succeed, try again. If what you're doing is not working, try something else instead. The important thing is not to give up.

Sometimes you have to try a 180-degree turn and do the exact opposite of whatever you've been doing. Be willing to do what it takes. Your relationship is precious, and love is a treasure. Treat it like the gift it is.

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More praise for awaken to love

Awaken to Love is one of those rare treasures that you want to return to again and again and again. The author shares generously about her own relationship challenges and her work with clients as a relationship therapist, and provides practical teachings and exercises that can be implemented immediately to transcend pain, heal heartbreak and transform an intimate relationship from a place of disconnection and conflict into a haven of love. This sounds like a big promise, but it is fulfilled in the explanation of how relationship is essentially a spiritual journey.

Relationships aren't meant to be 'perfect'. The author explains how relationships challenge you, shape you and help you grow. The book provides excellent guidance on how to love yourself first, release old patterns and manage intense emotions, as well as how to deal with conflict, practice forgiveness, celebrate passion, and actualise the true meaning of love. 

A highlight is the author's 'Love Illuminations' that introduce each chapter. For example, 

'As challenging as they are, love relationships are part of the moving, breathing, unfolding cycle of life. Just like the seasons, relationships change. If you expect it to be sunny every day, you will be disappointed. If you resist the wind and the rain, you will be frustrated. The very nature of love is dynamic. Nothing can stay alive and vibrant without dying and being reborn occasionally. The challenge is to embrace change because it also holds the gift. Without change there is no growth. Without growth, love dies.'

This book should be required reading for all couples who want to work towards having happy, soulful and fulfilling relationships. ~ Willow Johnson

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'People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.'

~ Elizabeth Kubler-Ross



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Meet Dr. Mia Rose

Amazon Best-selling Author  

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Hay house prize winner

First Prize Winner:

"most impressive, most marketable title..."

~ Chosen by Hay House Team, including President and CEO Reid Tracy

Mia Rose with Deepak Chopra at the Hay House Writer's Workshop, Melbourne 2013.

praise for awaken to love

"Dr. Mia has created a compelling work that explores loving relationships in a whole new light. She leads the reader to explore the most tender and intimate aspects of loving relationships using her mastery as a professional therapist with a twist - she shares from her heart! The power, warmth and beauty of her personal experience connect with the reader in ways most books on relationships never will!" ~ Mark E. Hundley, Licensed Professional Counselor and Author of Awaken to Good Mourning.


"Mia Rose is a modern day master in the art of LOVE and personal relationships. Her compelling story of her own transformation and the wisdom she shares in Awaken to Love is food for the soul and wisdom for anyone who has ever been in love." ~ Ariaa Jaeger, Spiritual Life Strategist, Philosopher, Author of Ariaaisms ~ Spiritual Food for the Soul, AriaaQuotes and The Book of Ariaa

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