As a relationship therapist, I'm often asked about my best healthy relationship tips. I usually try to steer clear of the obvious advice: enhance your communication skills, improve your conflict management skills, and have date nights... you know, the advice everyone gives. All of these are important, but for me healthy relationships are about so much more. More than anything else, it's about the energy that we bring into a relationship.
The most important of all healthy relationship tips, is to be mindful of your energetic connection with your partner.
Both of you have to be committed to raise each other's vibration, and the vibration of the entire relationship. This can only be done if both of you value the relationship above your own ego - and if both of you are committed to creating a loving relationship that fulfils both your needs.
A positive energetic connection between you and your partner is all about goodwill. It's about truly liking each other. It's about wanting to be in each other's company because you genuinely enjoy it. It's about a willingness to get to know each other's needs and doing your best to fulfil them. It's about being willing to cut each other some slack when one of you (or perhaps both of you) is tired or grumpy or stressed or unwell. It's about focusing on each other's strengths and actually wanting to act towards each other in loving ways.
You see... loving energy can't be faked. You can't pretend that things are okay when they're not - and get away with it for long. You can't fake happiness or caring or forgiveness... If you're energetically on a low, then both of you will FEEL it. And whether you like it or not, both of you will always intuitively know if the relationship is working well or not, simply because you can't be in a relationship and not be tuned in to its energy.
So what do you do if you have concerns about the energetic vibration of your intimate relationship?
Here are a few more of my best healthy relationship tips:
So there you have it, my top healthy relationship tips. Now go and do something special to raise the vibration of your relationship. It's a choice - and you can make it right now!
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