Falling in Love Signs: Love at First Sight

by JellyBean
(Ohio)

Reader Post: Some people equate falling in love signs with love at first sight. But can we really trust those first feelings of love?

Many people say that they've experienced love at first sight. Yes, that's how we often become attracted to someone else. But it doesn't necessarily mean that we've fallen in love with him or her. Love is about wanting to have a closer connection to a person. We want to hear the person's voice again. We want to see him or her again. We want to spend more time with someone. These are the true falling in love signs. If we don't experience these types of signs, then maybe we're just infatuated with someone, and have a crush on him or her. It's not true love.

That's not to say that just spending more time with someone will increase your chance of falling in love with him or her. But none of us want to spend time with someone we don't like or care about. When you wake up in the morning and you can't wait to see someone, that's probably on of those real falling in love signs. And spending more time with him or her will help that love to grow deeper. Unfortunately, there's no guarantee that the person will love you back. Indeed, it takes two to tango. But when you feel incomplete when you're not with that someone special, you're in love.